My Life’s Purpose
You Can’t Always Get What You Want
LIFE, ACCORDING TO THE ROLLING STONES
Most people would like to know what they are meant to be doing with their lives. During my twenty years of counselling, I have noticed that people are unsettled and unhappy if they sense they are not fulfilling their life’s purpose.
A visit to their life between lives gives people the opportunity to discover their life’s purpose. During their session, they receive much more than just information. Usually they relive a primary past life in their first session, and a secondary past life during the life between lives session. All these experiences, as well as the challenges they face in their current lives, provide fodder for examination. Their guides and the Council of Elders help them understand, first hand, the themes that are playing out in their lives. People come to see that the challenges, the events and the people in their current lives are there for a reason. As one client put it, ‘I felt I had been given the missing piece of the puzzle about why I behaved the way I did, and why I was who I was.’
When I conduct these sessions, I make only one firm promise: you will get what you need. Occasionally someone who expected to experience a past life does not. They go the trance but other issues come up that need to be addressed. Even though their expectations were not fulfilled, they leave happy. Their guides know exactly what they need. Their guides have brought them to my consulting room for a reason. That reason unfolds, and, by the time the session is over, the client has gained some valuable insights to take away.
Most people think that their life’s purpose is a job or a specific career. This is rarely the case. As you will see in the following stories, our purpose is more about refining the quality of our consciousness than the type of work we do. The physical skills we develop during our life die with the body, because the body is the vehicle for these skills. Our guides have described these physical abilities as ‘tools’. Fortunately, spiritual lessons do seem to carry over from life to life. These lessons are essential to our ongoing spiritual evolution.
Many of my clients have been the victims of violence in their past lives. Others have acted violently themselves. They usually find these memories challenging. To help them make sense of these experiences, I often ask them, ‘Do you now have any desire to kill another human?’ They never do, of course. Then I ask, ‘Did you have that desire earlier in your life, before learning better?’
They answer, ‘No. I have always felt that way. I have never wanted to hurt anyone.’
Then I ask, ‘So where did that knowing come from? Others in our world have the desire to kill. You don’t. And most likely you couldn’t, even to save yourself.’ They cannot answer. They don’t know how they developed such a distaste for violence.
I suspect they lost any desire to kill others through the experience of many lifetimes, lifetimes where they were killed and lifetimes where they killed. Once they have experienced both sides of the coin, so to speak, the desire to kill melts away. They know how it feels to be a victim and don’t want to inflict that on another.
This entropy of the killing instinct is, in my view, a change in consciousness that stays with us, once it is fully integrated into our psyche or soul. We improve the quality of our consciousness through many experiences that are eventually integrated. What we experience during the life between lives session, is a shift in our understanding. As we reflect on that experience it is integrated into our consciousness. Once we understand our journey, we know our next step.
Blanca
Blanca, who is in her early sixties, came to see me after reading Michael Newton’s books. She kept herself busy helping others, and was keen to make a difference in people’s lives. Even so, she wondered if she was fulfilling her life’s purpose. She had read about unconditional love and wanted to know how it felt to be loved unconditionally. She also hoped, during her life between lives session, that she would discover the lessons she was meant to learn in her current life. In total, Blanca had fifteen questions for the Council of Elders. I confidently told her that clients always had their questions answered.
On the way to the life between lives realm I always regress the client to a past life. As I guide Blanca back towards a past life, she encounters nothing but darkness. She seems stuck. We soon discover the reason for this difficulty.
Blanca is lying on the floor of a hut. The night is moonless and inside it is pitch black. She is holding her breath, and feels her heart beating against her ribcage.
Blanca is a married woman in her mid-twenties. She lives a simple life with her husband in a rudimentary village. The huts in this community are made mostly of bark and have earthen floors. The clothes they all wear are made of rough fabric in dull brown colours. They all work the fields. The weather is cool, probably autumn, and the place is England nearly a thousand years ago.
Blanca is lying up against a wall of the hut. In the darkness she starts feeling anxious.
I am waiting or listening for something. There are horsemen coming. Now they are here. They are riding through the village destroying everything. They are burning the huts and killing people with swords. I am trying to be small and hide in the dark. But they break into the house and cut me up. Slice me. I don’t feel any pain.
It becomes apparent that Blanca does not know she has died.
She is still hiding. She feels no pain because she has gone numb.
I ask her if she needs to hide anymore.
She shakes her head.
I ask if hiding kept her safe.
No. The soldiers are determined. They want to clear out all the scum.
I hear a quiver in her voice. I ask if she still needs to hide from the soldiers.
No. Now I can look down and see. It is a bloody mess. Dirt and blood. I see my body. Going up further I see there are bodies everywhere. The soldiers are gone.
Life just goes so quickly. Luckily we have several lives.
Life isn’t respected. It is such waste. A life cut short so quickly, so suddenly.
I am floating. There are clouds. Still floating. Just resting. I don’t have to be afraid anymore. It is very nice. I am just floating in the clouds.
I ask if she wants to go home. Blanca starts crying quietly. ‘Can I really go home?’ she pleads. She needs ten minutes to recover. It seems she has felt lost for a long time.
She says she has moved upwards a little but once again she seems to be stuck.
I see a light but it is not clear. I am feeling quite peaceful but there is a block in my head. It needs to be removed. I can’t function with it there. It is like a locked vault and I haven’t got access to who I really am. It is all locked up.
Blanca complains that her head hurts as I gently probe to discover the nature of the block. It emerges that Blanca is disturbed because her life as the slaughtered peasant woman didn’t seem to have any purpose. Her guides come in. Blanca describes them as ‘a presence. ’ They help her gain a deeper understanding.
A life doesn’t always have to have a purpose. I have to have certain experiences. The experience itself is enough. I don’t always have to do stuff. It is enough just to be, to experience life without always striving. That life was important because it gave me the opportunity to experience humility. I have a tendency to want to do great things. I need to do ordinary things as well. It doesn’t hurt to have a few messy deaths.
I need to learn to be patient. I always want to go somewhere. I am unique and it is enough just to be myself. I have read about this place [life between lives] where people can go. So I have expectations that might not be met. I have to let go of what I have read and just allow my own journey to unfold.
I have a feeling of excitement. An aliveness. There is something about appreciating that feeling. I don’t have to do anything with it. It is a sense of being more alive. I just have to be it and radiate it. I am to relax and do whatever I feel like doing. I am supposed to enjoy my life.
All the bossy people in my life have an idea of how I should be, but I don’t have to be what they expect.
I remind Blanca of her questions. Her guides give her more information.
The questions will be answered in good time. There is no point in talking about it. That is all in the head. Being in the head takes away the feeling. I need to focus my attention on my heart, body and feelings, rather than my thoughts and head.
I am asking where these needs came from my need to prove myself by doing something worthy and my need to be approved of by significant others. ‘Lighten up,’ they said. ‘Don’t be so serious.’ It is part of my soul nature to be serious and focused on doing things. It has been good and helped me develop but now it is getting in the way. If I want to expand I have to lighten up and realize that life is not that serious.
There is more to life than achieving. Being light and having fun is an important part of life. It is not supposed to be all work and no play.
I am being told that this is my life lesson. I am to appreciate life and lighten up. I need to let go of all expectations of others. No more mulling over things and judging. Instead, I need to be in a state of allowing. But most importantly, I am to live life with this feeling of aliveness. If I keep returning to this feeling and live it, then I am radiating unconditional love. Everything else is irrelevant. Nothing else is necessary.
I am surprised by these responses to her questions. I am used to having all my clients’ questions answered, but I can see that asking the questions will pull her out of her feeling of aliveness, and back into thinking. I ask what we are to do with all her questions.
They [Blanca’s guides] chuckle. Now is not the right time for questions. They don’t want me back in my head. The most important thing for me right now is this feeling, this feeling of being connected and alive. All that other stuff is a distraction and I don’t need to bother with it. It takes me out of really being in life and experiencing life.
I am being told to trust that the information will come when I need it. I always needed to know stuff and I would go searching for it. I collected information like a hoarder in case I needed it same day. I fill my head up with stuff I don’t need. I don’t need it until I need it and when I do need it, it will be there. It is about being present and not going off in my head thinking or worrying. It is as simple as that and as difficult as that.
Blanca spent another hour staying quietly connected to this powerful feeling that she described as ‘aliveness’. In some traditions, such as Buddhism, this might be described as ‘not doing’. Her fifteen questions remained unanswered, although she was confident that she would receive answers at an appropriate time. Her purpose and her life lessons, however, were very clear. She knew exactly what she was to do. She was to connect to this sense of aliveness as often as possible.
Jorge
Jorge had been spiritually minded for the last twenty years. He was a gentle man and deeply distressed. In the last six months, he had been on an emotional roller coaster ride. He’d left an unhappy marriage of thirty years after finding the love of his life. With his beloved, he soared with feelings of joy and fulfilment. Then, when she went back to her abusive husband, he plummeted into despair and depression.
He’d thought he was destined to rescue his new love, Ayalga, from her unhappy marriage. Now that she was gone, he felt there was no purpose to his life. He was in his late fifties, well-off, and finished with his architectural career. Not long before he met Ayalga, he had taken up natural medicine. Until recently, he had loved it, but now it gave him no joy. Wherever he looked, he saw only emptiness. For the first time in his life, he found himself seriously considering suicide.
Jorge had spent his life always doing what he thought was right. He was kind and thoughtful. Even the woman he left, his ex-wife, remained a friend. He couldn’t understand why he now had to suffer so deeply.
He had felt so close to Ayalga, Jorge thought they must share a soul connection. He deeply felt they were meant to be together. He wanted to know why the relationship hadn’t worked out, and what he could do about it. He wondered if he had done something dreadful in a previous life. Could his present suffering be karmic punishment?
Jorge did a past life regression and a life between lives regression. That meant we had the experience of two past lives and his present life to draw upon when making sense of his recent experiences. Both Ayalga and her husband made an appearance in both of those past lives.
In the first past life, they form a different relationship triangle. Jorge’s soul had incarnated as a young woman named Delina. Ayalga was Delina’s mother, and Ayalga’s present-day husband was Delina’s stepfather.
I am wearing a dress that goes down to my ankles and clogs that are made out of wood. My hair is long and brown. I am happily shopping for bread in a village. It seems I routinely do the shopping as I am an only child. I am fifteen years old. The streets are cobblestone and the day is cool and cloudy. We live nearby. I am getting the feeling that something is going to happen. I don’t like it. It is something disturbing.
I reassure Delina and suggest she be brave. She continues.
Someone grabs me. I have been dragged into a building, into a small room with stone walls. He rapes me. It is my stepfather.
He leaves and I go home. I have never liked him but I don’t say anything. Why don’t I say anything? [Delina cries deeply.] Because my mother loves him!
We progress to another scene in Jorge’s life as Delina.
It is nighttime. I am inside a cottage with a fire burning. I am thirty years old, living with my husband and our baby. Although I am contented I feel no passion for my husband. The rape has affected me. We argue. He wants sex and closeness and I don’t. He is a good provider and he is caring. Still, I never told him about the rape. I never told anyone.
We move on to another scenario.
Now I am thirty-five and my mother is dying. I go to her. My stepfather is already dead. I decide to tell her about the rape. She doesn’t believe me. She only thinks well of my stepfather, even though he was a hard man. I wonder why I bothered telling her. It didn’t make any difference. I feel resigned.
Delina dies alone at age sixty. She feels only a sense of relief as she passes over.
Jorge’s guide tells him that his life as Delina was designed to learn about love. As Delina he was given the opportunity to express love unconditionally.
I didn’t learn the lesson properly so I have to repeat [the experience]. I am still struggling with unconditional love in my current life. Delina had resentment towards the man who raped her. Her inability to put it aside for her husband was not love. Neither was the lack of forgiveness for her mother for not believing her.
My guide is telling me that to love unconditionally, I need to practice acceptance.
Jorge faces the same challenge in the next regression he undertakes a few weeks later. this is his visit to his life between lives. Before reaching this realm, we regress to another past life. Most often this is one’s immediate past life. This was the case for Jorge, whose past life occurred in the 1930s. He was called Nardo and he lived in a southwestern state of the USA.
Ayalga is my daughter. She is kneeling in front of me, crying. I have hit her. She is sixteen and she has been out with this boyfriend who I dislike. He is no good for her. He makes her unhappy because he is full of jealousy and anger.
It soon becomes apparent that this boyfriend is the same soul as Ayalga’s husband in her current life.
Her mother has died many years ago and I brought her up alone. She and I are very close. There are no other children. I don’t mind if she has boyfriends as long as they treat her well. She is pretty upset with me. She is heartbroken. She wants to be with this boyfriend and I won’t let her.
We progress to another scene.
It is night and I am dying. I am in hospital after having had a heart attack. My daughter is beside me. She is in her early thirties and I am nearly sixty.
We are still close and she is visibly upset. She has been devoted to me. She is going to lose the only significant person in her life. She never married. She wasn’t interested in the other boyfriends who came along because she was set on the first one. She gave him up because I demanded it.
I tell her I love her and I know she loves me. It is important that she has the chance to say goodbye. I seem to be at peace with dying.
Jorge is quiet for a few minutes before I ask him what is happening.
It’s quite bizarre. I’m finding it difficult to move on.
I spend about ten minutes helping him release his attachment to his daughter. I explain that hanging on doesn’t help his daughter, who now needs to pursue her own life. He eventually lets go.
We move onto his life between lives. After being encased by a loving light that removes any leftover emotions, his guide appears. I ask about the purpose of his life as Nardo.
It is a bit of a rest point, nothing too challenging. For some reason, there was loneliness but also companionship. I was learning about having a love relationship in a non-sexual way. Mostly I succeeded. I probably shouldn’t have interfered with my daughter’s relationship with her boyfriend. Even though we parents might think we know what is best, we need to give our children the freedom to choose. That love was not quite unconditional.
Jorge’s guide suggests we go to a place that Jorge describes as a meeting place, like a coffee shop. He recognises the other people there. It appears they will be involved in his current life as Jorge.
We are in a coffee shop discussing the things we want to work on in our coming lives. It is all very broad at the moment. My eldest brother figures prominently in our plans with the group. He is going to help us resolve some karmic issues. He will take on the role of antagonist. We formulate our own rough plan, but it has to be approved by the Lords of Karma.
At the beginning of out session, Jorge had described his eldest brother as the creator of copious grief for the family over the last twenty years. Apparently this brother tried to steal his mother’s money and cost the family millions of dollars. None of the siblings speak to this brother.
It takes a hell of a lot of work to organise a lifetime. I cannot comprehend it. It is too complex.
Ayalga appearing in this life is only an option. I interfered with her plans in the past life and that needs to be adjusted in this coming life. It is tricky to get us to meet. We move in different age groups and circles. We decide to put it in the plan but we are not sure it will happen. Decisions will have to be made and free will, of course, can alter things.
I now explore the questions that Jorge had composed for the life between lives session. These are all about his current life and his brief, intense relationship with Ayalga.
I am experiencing what I forced Ayalga to experience when I was her father. She had to shut down to the person she wanted to be with and now I have to shut down to being with her. There is some karmic thing between Ayalga and her husband. They have to work it out and it is important that they keep going until they do. They might get it sorted this lifetime. It is not that she doesn’t want to be with me or that she doesn’t love me; it is just that she has these other priorities. Being friends with me now is not possible. Her husband is the jealous type and staying friends would distract her. I succeeded in my role in her life by showing her what a loving relationship is like. That will help her with her purpose.
Jorge was satisfied with the information he had received but he still had one major problem. How does he find fulfilment now Ayalga is gone from his life?
There is room to express unconditional love to some family members and I can focus on serving others. I can rest and enjoy life instead of it being so hard. Another relationship is possible. Even though I am scared, I could open up again. There are some areas where I could do further training. For example, there is a new natural therapy that interests me.
Jorge did not receive what he had been hoping for in the sessions. He desperately wanted to be with Ayalga. He felt his life was empty without her. And he was seriously considering suicide if he could not be with her. If he knew, right at the beginning, that he would not get the assurances he craved, he might have baulked at undertaking the regression.
So he was surprised when he finally discovered that he and Ayalga were not meant to be together. Sure, he felt disappointed and sad, but he was no longer depressed and he was no longer suicidal.
The many hours Jorge and I spent together were not therapy. We did not try to solve Jorge’s problems by talking about them. Instead, he actually relived the experiences that had led to his current situation. This time, as he explored his past lives, he saw them from a larger perspective. With this broad knowledge of his lives and his purpose, he could make sense of his current life and the deep grief he’d been suffering.
He understood why he’d felt such a strong bond with Ayalga. In one life he was her daughter; in the other she was his daughter.
He also discovered, in the first session, his major life purpose. His purpose was to learn to love unconditionally. He didn’t manage to achieve this in his second past life but he was pleased to see that he had another chance in his current life.
Jorge now knew exactly why his life and his relationships had followed a particular course. He also knew that he had to let Ayalga go.
Four years later I caught up with Jorge. He hadn’t seen Ayalga for years and was still friends with his ex-wife. He now had a successful healing business, using massage and other modalities. The testimonials on his website were glowing. No doubt he possessed a caring energy and a gift for healing. He was content with his life and found great satisfaction in helping people.
Amelia
Amelia came to her life between lives session hoping to experience her soul’s wisdom and gain a better understanding of her life’s purpose.
Amelia experienced a past-life in Northern Europe over a hundred years ago. She married the man she loved and had four children. Her life was much like the life of her mother and her grandmother before her. She baked, cooked, looked after the house, and cared for her carpenter husband and their children.
At the end of her life, her children and grandchildren are by her side. Her husband has already passed and she is looking forward to seeing him again. Her body is tired and her spirit is ready to go. She knows her family will be fine. She has cared for them lovingly and although they are sad to see her leave, she knows they will be sustained by the love she has bestowed on them.
She moves upwards and is met by her guides, one a male and one a female. She feels the different energies they emanate. The male has a strong, protective energy, while the female is softer and more caring. This combination restores her, and she feels a sense of wholeness, bliss and peace.
I feel like I am floating through an energy that is soft and velvet. It is strange because I have no body but I sort of feel like I do. I have the softest feathers all around me. Down, it is like goose down, caressing me, floating all around me while I am moving through it.
Amelia arrives in a garden. She explains that this is not a garden like those on Earth. There is no sun and yet there is light everywhere. All the trees, plants and flowers glow with a special light and there are more colors than she has ever seen before.
Amelia’s guides sit with her in the garden while she reviews her past life. She discovers it was a rest life after a series of more challenging lives. The energies she took with her to Earth were mostly positive and they helped her achieve her purpose, which was all about love. She did well, as looking after and loving her family was a major part of her purpose for that past life.
Amelia wants to know about her current life’s purpose. Her guides communicate to her through thoughts, telling her to be patient, as all will be revealed soon. First, they want to take her on a journey through the spirit world. This is also something that Amelia hoped to experience.
They fly off with her, and she arrives at the top of a high cliff with the ocean far below. Suddenly she sees colored energetic lights moving towards her. The lights are oval in shape and each one is a mix of different colors, like rainbows, but each one is unique in its combination of colors. As they come closer, she realises they are beings, or souls she has known for a long time. They surround her in a circle, drawing her into their beautiful light. It is her soul group and they are welcoming her back. She feels their loving light penetrating her in an exquisitely pleasant way.
Next, her guides take her to the library. Amelia can tell it is a library because it is filled with shelves of books. As she watches, the books start shimmering like holographs. It seems that they are alive. She receives the message that knowledge is energy and energy is knowledge, but not a solid, unchanging knowledge. The message is clearly given to her that knowledge has to be lived, not just accumulated and stored. She sees how the energies join, like a network of spider’s webs, millions of them, all connected. They are all shimmering with energy.
She reaches out to touch one and a memory comes alive in her mind, and she sees the connection of this memory with other experiences she has had. She struggles to explain how profound this is for her, seeing the connections and the experiences resonating within her and influencing her future decisions. She can see how real wisdom comes from within, once one has reflected on many experiences and created the connections. She knows the information she needs at any time is available and can be accessed if she opens up to receive it.
She receives the message that trust is part of her purpose. She is to trust that any information that she needs will come. The time of studying is past. She needs to learn to trust her intuition.
Her guides now take her back to the cliff top. She recognizes people from her current life, including her mother, her brother and some friends. She is told to look deeply into each one, one after another. As she looks closely at each individual, she automatically receives information about his or her strengths and weaknesses. She also understands how she can best interact with each of them to assist them on their soul journey. Amelia realises that these interactions are mutually beneficial—working with members of her soul family will aid her progress as she advances from life to life.
Now she is taken to a beautiful building of high columns and marble. She feels waves of energy flowing through her as she enters. It is like the power of this place is resonating out to all who come within its vicinity. The feeling is one of positive power, and the waves of energy are blends of blue and red, interacting together to form different hues of lilac and purple.
She realises she is to meet her Council of Elders. There are seven beings of light in front of her. The one in the middle is the spokesperson.
She energetically receives the message that she has done well. It comes to her as a feeling of loving energy that flows into her heart. It is so strong and beautiful that tears run down her cheeks.
She is told she is part of an important mission to help the energies change on the planet. She does this by blending together the Earth energies and the higher energies when she is in physical form.
She learns she has had many lifetimes. In some she was the perpetrator of violence, and others she was the victim. Many of her lives were very dark and she chose this path to progress quickly, so she could help the Earth changes. Her experience helps her energetically relate to others. She holds the positive energy for people who are struggling with the darkness inherent in the Earth system. By holding the positive energy she helps them lift their vibration to a point where sometimes they can feel lighter and loved.
The Council members tell her how much they value and support her work. Her purpose is to love people unconditionally. Some people love their false selves, and Amelia is told to accept them as they are. She realises these people are at a stage of development where this is the best they can do. Loving one’s false self is better than not loving oneself at all.
The Council encourages her to continue her good work, and suggests she move onto another place of interest.
Amelia’s guides take her to a place where other souls are working with energy. These spiritual beings are part of her work group and they are sending out streams of positive energies, like thought energy, to the humans and animals on Earth. This helps to raise the vibration of all beings on the planet and of the Earth itself. She understands that this is the work she does when she is in spirit. It is very similar to the work she is now doing while she is incarnated. This energy work is her specialisation, and her journey through all her many lives on Earth have brought her to this point where she is powerful enough to help others.
Amelia feels very satisfied with her journey through her life between lives and with the information she received about her purpose. She thanks her guides for their loving support and renews her determination to continue on her path and fulfill her purpose to benefit the Earth and all its inhabitants.
Daniela
Daniela, aged in her late thirties, knows what she wants from her session: ‘To fit together the experiences I am having.’ She hopes to understand the trust issues that have affected her relationships.
She experiences a past life as a female, named Alina, who lives in a community in a forest. Her skin is fair and her hair light brown. She wears pointed black leather shoes with a silver buckle. She notes that her shoes are dusty. The green dress she wears has puffed sleeves with a skirt that falls to the ground.
She sees people working in the forest clearing where they live. The men have beards and are chopping wood while the women are cooking. The huts are made from straw and sticks. It is Scandinavia, a long time ago.
We all work hard to survive. My parents live there and I am alone. I am having fun and I like helping the family. I am happy.
We move to another scene in Daniela’s life as Alina.
I am outside and it is night. I am not feeling good. There are some mean people around. Very mean. They are trying to break up the whole community. They don’t like us because we love nature. They don’t understand us. We are peaceful people who love life. They don’t like that. They are afraid.
They hit me. I beg them to stop. But they don’t stop. They’re hurting us... They are killing us and throwing us into graves.
Alina leaves her body and drifts upwards.
I can see the blue sky. Something is sparkling. I see sparkles everywhere. The sparkles are souls. They are around me now and I am moving upwards.
Now I see a shadow. It changes form. It is playing games with me. It is my guide making me feel comfortable.
I am not sure where I am now. I am resting.
We pause for a while as Daniela recovers from this life. Her guide gives her information about her life as Alina.
The men who came and killed us were naïve people. I am being told there is darkness as well as light. There are dark places and dark people. Lessons can be learnt from interacting with dark people.
These people who killed us will be shown their own lessons in time. That experience of killing will help them. They will have dark times in their lives and will learn compassion and understanding through these experiences.
They are cruel people. One is my grandfather in my current life. I am helping my grandfather.
I chose this life as Alina and I knew what would happen. I was okay with that. It was a useful life. I learned a lot. I learned that we are one with nature. We are one with all living things, good and bad. Even the cruel people, we are one with them too. I also learnt the benefits of being together in a community and learning to appreciate each other.
This life was a positive experience in spite of the violent end. My guide said I stood by what I believed in and never gave up. He is pleased and I feel peaceful.
Daniela is given more information about her life’s purpose later from the Council of Elders.
The lives of Daniela and Alina are similar. My purpose, then and now, is to speak my truth. I am not to sacrifice what I know the truth to be by giving in and remaining silent against powerful people.
As Daniela, I have been the kind of person who wants to help by changing people. I cannot force change upon others. My purpose is to let them be and speak my own truth. Other people will watch and learn. If some don’t like it, they are not ready.
My mother has a lot to learn. I am here to help her this lifetime. I need to say to her ‘life is beautiful’ and she will learn through my example of loving life.
I am to keep living my truth. When I feel connected to everything, animals and peoples, that is my truth. If I quieten my mind, I can connect. And I can do that all the time. It is about being loving and accepting but being honest as well.
My anxiety has come from the burden of disbelief. It will go if I just trust in life. The ego gives me false messages. A false message is dark, negative self-doubt. Let fears go.
I have no past issues to be concerned about. I am to just follow these instructions.
All the dark people play a role, not good or bad, it just is. Some people learn their lessons through pain. I don’t need to have pain anymore if I just trust what happens and flow along with life freely.
If I think of the word release, I can access the feeling of peace and tranquility.
I am being told: ‘You are to feel loved because you are loved.’
After the session, Daniela said, ‘It was incredible...such a release. I felt it inside, outside, all around. It was truly an experience and more than I expected.’
Daniela’s purpose reminded me of another case where the client was told that her purpose was to speak her truth. She was also encouraged to live her truth. The Council told her it is about saying yes when everyone else is saying no.
When I hear these words I see, in my mind’s eye, a poster I have encountered with one fish, a little different to the others, swimming in the opposite direction.
This message, of speaking and living our truth in the face of opposition from others, is one that is frequently given to people in their life between lives. Of course, before we can live our truth we have to know what that is. As Daniela’s Council mentioned, the ego and our fears can hijack us and throw us off-track.
Conclusion
From the cases outlined here, it seems we plan our lives and set goals that we hope to achieve. Although this is generally true of the people who come to visit their life between lives, it does not mean everyone on the planet plans their life.
I have heard some spiritual gurus suggest that souls are all different and at different stages of awareness. Some souls might plan their next incarnation in detail, some might do no planning at all, and others lie somewhere in between these two extremes. The analogy of high school graduates illustrates the point. Some graduates know what they want to do from a young age and plan the steps needed to fulfil their goals. Some plan loosely. Others do no planning at all and wait for opportunities to arise.
However it works, many people sense they do have a purpose, especially people who decide to undertake a spiritual regression. And I have noticed that people with no sense of purpose usually feel lost.
People who visit their life between lives find the experience greatly rewarding. One major satisfaction is gaining clarification on the nature of their life’s purpose.
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